it's hard to communicate other people. because different personality. Dale Carnegie that book publish communication skill said "Basically, most of peoples are sefish and personal"
if everybody does that, how to communicate other people? we can talk to the other people. you know. you can guess and respond.
When I said to talk opposite thinks, pause and said the same opinion as the other person. then you could heard positive reaction. so easy right?
most of people mind saying positive reaction. cuz selfish. they want to tell themselves and to respond themselves.
for example, how to respond this question? "weather is cool. right?"
somebody would said "Yes, we need to something hot drink. how about a coffee?", other said "I'm not cool. cuz my body warm"
which do you choose best respond? Fisrt respond account for 99.9% in this question. Making human relationship is not difficult. already you kwow the answer.
Changing your habit is not easy. but you can chang communication skill if you care little bit. if you think about themselves instead of thinking about myself.
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